2025-26 Retreat Registration
Our 2025-26 retreats are open for registration. If you encounter any problems while trying to register, please call the office at 847-381-1261.
Retreat Schedule
The Trauma-Informed Spiritual Exercises: Growing Your Ignatian Spiritual and Pastoral Caregiving Skills
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 20 - 22, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Rob McChesney, SJ
The American Psychological Association calls trauma “an emotional response to a terrible event.” Research indicates that about 70% of people worldwide have been exposed to at least one traumatic event in their lives: suffering injuries to body, mind, brain, and spirit. In the Christian tradition, these human components do not function separately but are understood holistically as the “soul.”
Most people are familiar with the term “posttraumatic stress disorder” (PTSD). However, the ancient Greek word for trauma means a wound—not a disorder—inflicted upon the body by an act of violence. God’s people are wounded, and those entrusted with the care of souls are called to respond.
This weekend offering is designed for the personal and professional development of Ignatian spiritual and pastoral caregivers—including those in parish, educational, or healthcare settings—who are seeking to grow their trauma-informed self-awareness and skills. Grounded in Fr. McChesney's book on mental health and Ignatian spirituality, it will: 1) situate Saint Ignatius in light of contemporary trauma theory; 2) examine the significance of "soul-healing"; in Christian and Ignatian tradition; and 3) identify and discuss particular Ignatian spiritual insights and practices adapted to noticing and caring for the wounded among us, many of whom are journeying through posttraumatic growth in the wake of “moral injury trauma” or “spiritual injury trauma.”
A hybrid workshop/retreat, it will include input and exercises from the facilitators, dialogue and faith sharing among participants, and time for both liturgical and personal prayer.
Groups Attending: Individuals
This retreat begins tomorrow, but there is still space available. To register, call the office at 847-381-1261.
A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint (Palm Sunday)
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
March 27 - 29, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Experience the Spiritual Exercises by taking a deep dive into the life of Simon, named Peter, the rock, by Jesus. Just as he has two names, so he has two distinct sides to his personality. He is gentle, but bold; foolish, yet wise, and human. Together we’ll pray about what it means to belong to a Church that is larger than the sum of its members.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Lenten Day of Prayer: Paying Attention
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Monday, March 30, 2026
9:00 am to 4:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Cameron Bellm
"Attention is the beginning of devotion." --Mary Oliver
"Attention, taken to its highest degree, is the same thing as prayer. It presupposes faith and love. Absolutely unmixed attention is prayer." --Simone Weil
Many artists, poets, and mystics believed that attention was central to the spiritual life, to our experience of God and the world around us. We'll spend this day of reflection drinking deeply from the well of their wisdom, with time to enter into the fullness of God's loving gaze upon us and to practice turning our own loving gaze upon others and upon the wonders of creation. We'll be nourished, together, by the intertwined mysteries of prayer and attention.
We will close the day with the stations of the cross through Mary's eyes, giving us an opportunity to turn our attention and compassion upon all who are suffering and to enter into the Triduum with sensitive and open hearts.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
March Personal Retreat Days
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
March 30 - April 2, 2026
Come to enjoy the quiet of Bellarmine this spring. Spiritual Direction is available upon request if scheduled far enough in advance. Otherwise, enjoy the time to pray, rest and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds.
Registration deadline: March 25
Single Night Cost: $175.00
Two Nights or more: $160.00 per night
Walking with Christ
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
April 2 - 4, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Roc O'Connor, SJ
Enter into the sacred journey of Holy Week with prayer, reflection, and silence. As we walk alongside Jesus, from the Upper Room to the Cross and into the hope of the Resurrection, we’ll listen deeply to His call and open our hearts to His grace. Through Scripture, Ignatian contemplation, and quiet time with God, this retreat invites you to experience the depth of Christ’s love and the promise of new life.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Beloved Sinners, Broken & Blessed: Celebrating the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises through the Psalms
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 17 - 19, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ
Biblical scholar Fr. Mitch continues his insightful teaching with a deep dive into the psalms of glory, exploring their historical context and connection to the 4th Week of the Spiritual Exercises—the joy of Christ’s Resurrection.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Knights of Columbus at St. Catherine of Siena - West Dundee
To Proclaim A Year of Favor from the Lord: A Day of Healing Prayer
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Tuesday, April 21, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leaders:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ & A Team of Healers
Come to this day to pray for yourself and for your loved ones. Fr. Michael will introduce us to variety of ways of praying for healing - physically, emotionally, and spiritually. For as many of the retreatants as time allows, there will be the opportunity for brief individual prayer with members of a prayer team. The day includes a “Healing Mass” and a closing Healing Prayer Service with Eucharistic Adoration.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Prayer in Real Life
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
May 1 - 3, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Vinita Hampton Wright
Prayer isn’t just for quiet moments—it’s meant to weave through the ordinary rhythms of our days. This retreat invites you to explore practical, meaningful ways to connect with God in the midst of real life. Through reflection, conversation, and quiet time, discover how prayer can be a steady companion—whether in joy, struggle, work, or rest.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Saint Ignatius College Prep Parents and Alumni
Graced Encounters with Christ
A Day of Reflection for Women
Friday, May 8, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Sharon Krone
Jesus promised, “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” On this sacred day of reflection, we gather to rest in the assurance of His constant presence. Through Scripture, we will listen for the gentle whisper of His voice. In prayerful silence, we will open our hearts to the Spirit moving within. As we remember moments of grace in our lives, we will recognize the footprints of Christ walking beside us. And in faith-sharing with fellow pilgrims, we will glimpse the face of Jesus in one another.
Come away for a while and be renewed by the quiet beauty of the day—a time to encounter the living Christ who is already here, waiting to meet you in the stillness.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Veterans "Coming Home" Retreat
A Veteran's Coming Home Retreat for Adults
Sunday, May 17, 2026
8:00 am to 5:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
A Jesuit and a Team of Veterans
Where do you go to unpack the duffle bag of experiences that were part of your military experience? Here at Bellarmine all veterans and their adult family members are welcome for reflection on the gifts and burdens of have served. Whether you're recently discharged or back in civilian life for many years, this is a day of healing, hope, and sharing with others who understand your story. Open to all faith traditions.
The Spiritual Heart of Women
An Ignatian, Silent Overnight Retreat for Women
June 19 - 20, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $280.00 per person
Retreat Leaders:
Erin Maiorca, Elizabeth Neubauer & Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Greet the summer season, tend your spirit and welcome God's love. On this overnight, interfaith retreat we will explore different ways to pray including:
- Meditation, with the loving-kindness prayer
- Embodied prayer, with gentle Tai Chi movements,
- Lectio Divina, an ancient Christian practice of Scripture reading
- Sacred writing, allowing your feelings to flow and be expressed
You will have time to breathe in the beauty of creation as we nurture our deepest selves. Mass will be celebrated on Saturday afternoon and the Sacrament of Reconciliation will be available.
Come as you are, to rest in nature’s beauty. Bring a sister, daughter, mother or friends and nurture your soul alongside the women you love.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Peace & Quiet Day
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
Friday, June 19, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
This quiet day is an opportunity to enjoy Bellarmine's sacred grounds without the interruptions of a regular day. While there are no talks or presentations for this day, an optional Mass is included along with breakfast and lunch.
June 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
June 22 - 30, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Monday, June 22, or Friday, June 26th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five days end either Friday, June 26th or Tuesday, June 30th.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.
July 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
July 17 - 25, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Friday, July 17, or Monday, July 20th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five Days then end on either Tuesday, July 21 or Friday, July 24.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.
Is our house built on rock or sand?
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
September 11 - 13, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Paul Macke, SJ
This men’s retreat will focus on the foundation of our life. Is our house built on Rock or Sand? Our world situation is often filled with chaos right now, and we need solid anchors to navigate these rough waters. This retreat will give some quiet space to reflect on what is most important for you and for our world.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Matt Carpenter
Charismatic Retreat: A New Heart
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
September 18 - 20, 2026
Retreat Leaders:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ, Mark Kwaku Nimo, D. Min. & Fr. Keith Romke
Back by popular request, this team of dynamic presenters will lead us in soul stirring praise and worship music, inspiring teachings, and powerful witnesses. Come with a heart hungry to experience a fresh outpouring of the Holy Spirit. The retreat is open to seasoned charismatics and those new to the movement.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Becoming a Mighty Kindness: Surrendering to the Beauty of Our Unshakable Goodness
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
September 25 - 27, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Gregory Boyle, SJ
Drawing from the intentional community formed at Homeboy Industries, this session explores the principles that we are all unshakably good and that we belong to each other. Surrendering to this, nurtures into place, communities of cherished belonging.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Writing Retreat: Epiphanies’ of Beauty
An Ignatian, Semi-Slient Extended Weekend Retreat for Adults
October 1 - 4, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Carla Galdo
Saint John Paul II exhorted artists “passionately dedicated to the search for new ‘epiphanies’ of beauty” to offer their creative works “as gifts to the world.” As writers, artists, or thoughtful people who feel called to the crafting of language, how can we best receive God’s world, in all of its grit and glory, and offer it back as gift through our works? Poets, novelists, saints, and other writers have grappled with this question over the years; we will explore some of their reflections, while also taking intentional time for prayer, worship, meditation, and personal writing.
Groups Attending: Individuals
"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
October 9 - 11, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ
It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.
Groups Attending: Individuals
A Jesuit’s Guide to the Stars
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
October 16 - 18, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Br. Guy Consolmagno, SJ
Jesuit spirituality is centered on “finding God in all things.” What better represents “all things” than the universe itself? Indeed, Jesuits have figured prominently in the history of astronomy, engaging both the mind and the heart... the mathematical and scientific study of the phenomena, and also its history and philosophy, and its reflections in art, photography, and poetry.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Journeying in Friendship with Jesus
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
October 23 - 25, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Nick Albin, SJ
Journey with Fr. Nick through a retreat exploration into the theme of friendship with Jesus. This weekend will provide an opportunity to reflect upon the joys and challenges within friendships while discerning how to root these experiences through the context of Christ’s life by examining his relationships with the apostles and the people whom he encountered in the gospels. This retreat will include applied personal reflections from Fr. Nick while drawing upon examples from scripture and the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola as prayerful invitations to deepen one’s friendship with Jesus.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Life is the Teacher: I am the Student
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
October 30 - November 1, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Roger Bruner
As we watch how our Higher Power manifests in creation, we witness that Life is the Teacher. As our lives unfold before us, sometimes we wonder “why is this happening to me?” A better question might be “what is this person, situation, or circumstance trying to show or teach me?” How do we learn to interpret the happenings in our day with the intention to “read our spiritual mail?” We need to see it and feel it, rather than push the lesson away, because the lesson holds the answer for change. This weekend will focus on embracing that shift in perception, to realize that it’s all a gift, if we’re willing to be students.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Hope Lives in Our Real Life
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
November 6 - 8, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Becky Eldredge
“We have this anchor of hope firm and secure.” Hebrews 6:19. As we survey our lives and world, hope can feel far out of our reach. Our faith teaches us that God infuses hope in us. Come and journey with Becky Eldredge, Ignatian trained spiritual director, retreat facilitator, and award-winning author as she invites you to embrace the gift of hope and learn practical tools to anchor into the promise of hope in our real lives.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Making a Real Connection
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Women
November 13 - 15, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Roc O'Connor, SJ
The Twelve Steps provide a path for emerging from isolation and self-focus toward becoming real with self, others, and our Higher Power and, so, making worthwhile connections. Here’s one way of approaching the Steps.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Working with the Tools of the Program
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
November 20 - 22, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Rev. Carol Ann Munro
The twelve steps provide us tools not merely for getting sober, but for living our fullest lives. They provide a systematic way to build a rich and rewarding relationship with a Higher Power that can result in a life beyond our wildest imaginings. And they take us on an adventure from learning how to accept the things we cannot change to being grateful for all we are given.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Trusting God in Life’s Twists and Turns: The Conversions of St. Ignatius Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
December 4 - 6, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Michael J. Graham, SJ
Life rarely follows a straight path. Unexpected joys, sudden losses, new opportunities, and unforeseen challenges all shape our journey. In these moments of uncertainty, we are invited to pause, reflect, and seek where God is leading us. This retreat offers a sacred space to explore the ways in which life’s detours and disruptions are not obstacles, but invitations—callings to trust, to grow, and to deepen our relationship with God. Through guided reflections rooted in Ignatian spirituality, personal prayer, and quiet contemplation, we will consider how God is present in the unexpected, gently guiding us toward a future filled with grace. Come with an open heart, ready to listen to the stirrings of the Spirit. Together, in the silence and beauty of retreat, we will discern how life’s twists and turns are shaping us for something greater—leading us ever closer to God’s loving embrace.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Growing into Your Best Self
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
December 11 - 13, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Elizabeth Neubauer
Prior to recovery, we lead selfish, disconnected lives. By applying the spiritual principles to our attitudes and behaviors we will have the strength to change into a person we can be proud of. This weekend we will explore how our Higher Power walks with us on this journey of healing. Together, we will see how to repair relationships and recognize how perfectionism and shame have held us back from our desire to be trustworthy, honest and whole.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Encountering Christ in the Spiritual Exercises
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 8 - 10, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Br. Larry Huck, SJ
If I desire to follow Jesus Christ in my life, I have to come to know him. On this retreat, we will follow in the footsteps of St. Ignatius of Loyola in seeking to be a companion of Jesus.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Four Shepherds
"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 15 - 17, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ
It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.
Groups Attending: Individuals
A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 22 - 24, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Experience the Spiritual Exercises by taking a deep dive into the life of Simon, named Peter, the rock, by Jesus. Just as he has two names, so he has two distinct sides to his personality. He is gentle, but bold; foolish, yet wise, and human. Together we’ll pray about what it means to belong to a Church that is larger than the sum of its members.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Roche/Zera
Anchored in Glory - A Retreat on Christian Hope
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 29 - 31, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Michael Pederson, SJ
Christian hope is not wishful thinking, but rather confidence rooted in God’s promise. Through Scripture, the Spiritual Exercises, and prayerful silence, this retreat invites you to rediscover and strengthen the hope we have through Jesus. The hope that strengthens us through suffering, failure, and uncertainty. Drawing on St. Paul’s vision of hope in Romans and the Church’s understanding of hope as a theological virtue, we will explore how God trains the heart to desire what truly lasts. Come encounter the God who calls you forward and anchors your life in eternal glory.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Preparing Our Pilgrim Hearts for Lent
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
February 5 - 7, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Christine Eberle
Too often, Lent catches us by surprise; we find ourselves at an Ash Wednesday service trying to figure out what to give up (or take on) for the next six weeks. This year, why not ground your Lent in a weekend retreat that will help you enter the holy season ahead more grace-fully? Through presentation, reflection, conversation, and prayer, we will consider how to approach Lent with the heart of a pilgrim: radically open to the journey before us as we deepen our walk with God.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Growing Closer to God through the Changes in Our Lives
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
February 19 - 21, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Al Gustafson
The reality of change is the only constant in our human experience. Our fall retreat will invite us to trust this is not something to fear but rather to embrace. Drawing from our Christian tradition and Buddhist spiritual practices, we will discover that change is the portal through which we step toward deepening our experience and trust in the love and mercy of God. Our time together will include teaching, guided meditations and small group sharing.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Behold, I Stand at the Door and Knock: A Journey Through Sacred Thresholds
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
February 26 - 28, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Damian Torres-Botello, SJ
This retreat invites you to walk through the sacred thresholds of Scripture: doors of encounter, freedom, suffering, and new life. Each “door” is a spiritual opening, a place where God meets us and draws us into deeper trust and love. Grounded in the Ignatian Examen, one of the key movements of the Spiritual Exercises, every session leads toward the door Christ still knocks on today: the human heart. Along the way, we cross Scripture’s most powerful entry points: the Threshold of Creation, the Ark, the Passover Doorposts, the Temple, the Manger, the Shepherd’s Gate, the Upper Room, the Tomb’s opening, and finally, the threshold into Christ’s own heart.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Beloved Sinners, Broken & Blessed: Celebrating the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises through the Psalms
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 5 - 7, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ
Biblical scholar Fr Mitch reprises his insightful teachings with a deep dive into the psalms exploring their historical context and connection to The Principle & Foundation and the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Practice Makes Progress
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
March 12 - 14, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Tom Weston, SJ
Explore the wisdom of the 12 Steps as a path to peace and lasting joy. Step away from the noise, gather practical and spiritual tools, and grow in grace and gratitude—one day at a time.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Praying with Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
March 19 - 21, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Flaherty, SJ
Although they lived in quite separate times and circumstances, Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola share a common and dramatic experience of conversion to Christ. The experience shaped Paul’s theology as expressed in his various letters to the Christian and largely Gentile communities. And Ignatius’ Spiritual Exercises, as well, are shaped by his experience of Christ calling him to be his companion. In this retreat, I will explore some connections between a selection of Paul’s letters and Ignatius’ Exercises to show how they mutually enrich one another and invite us, in Paul’s words, “to put on Christ.”
Groups Attending: Individuals
From Passion and Death to New Life: Living the Paschal Mystery in Our Lives
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 25 - 27, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mark Carr, SJ
Each Holy Week the liturgies of the Church retrace the path of Jesus' passion, death, and resurrection. As disciples of Christ, we are called to follow that same path in our lives. Through scripture, Ignatian contemplation, the liturgies of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, and quiet time for reflection, this retreat invites you to experience the depth of Christ’s love and the promise of new life.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Ignatian Spirituality and Yoga
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
April 2 - 4, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Bobby Karle, SJ
This retreat includes gentle movement, group prayer, silent reflection, small group sharing, and spiritual direction. We will explore the four Universal Apostolic Preferences of the Society of Jesus through the lens of both the Christian and Yoga traditions. Relax, and connect with God, nature, self, and others. No prior experience required.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Trusting God in Life’s Twists and Turns: The Conversions of St. Ignatius Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 9 - 11, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Michael J. Graham, SJ
Life rarely follows a straight path. Unexpected joys, sudden losses, new opportunities, and unforeseen challenges all shape our journey. In these moments of uncertainty, we are invited to pause, reflect, and seek where God is leading us. This retreat offers a sacred space to explore the ways in which life’s detours and disruptions are not obstacles, but invitations—callings to trust, to grow, and to deepen our relationship with God. Through guided reflections rooted in Ignatian spirituality, personal prayer, and quiet contemplation, we will consider how God is present in the unexpected, gently guiding us toward a future filled with grace. Come with an open heart, ready to listen to the stirrings of the Spirit. Together, in the silence and beauty of retreat, we will discern how life’s twists and turns are shaping us for something greater—leading us ever closer to God’s loving embrace.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Ignatian Spirituality in a Secular Age
An Ignatian, Silent Overnight Retreat for Adults
April 16 - 17, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Dr. Lauren Schwer
This retreat explores how Ignatian spirituality—rooted in discernment, interior freedom, and an understanding of one’s unique role in the work of justice and love—is not only necessary and relevant in today’s world, but also invitational to those who are religiously unaffiliated, spiritual but not religious, seeking, or otherwise not part of a particular spiritual home. Participants will engage in prayer/reflection and conversation as they integrate the gifts of the Ignatian tradition into their lives with depth while honoring their own spiritual identity.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Refresh, Renew, Respond
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 23 - 25, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Brad Held, SJ
Jesus calls all people, and each of us in particular, to join him in building his kingdom. Retreating gives each of us an opportunity to refresh our ears to what Jesus sounds like and to renew our hearts to respond to his call. We'll use elements of St. Ignatius' Spiritual Exercises to aid us in that refreshment and renewal.
Groups Attending: Individuals
A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint (Palm Sunday)
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
March 27 - 29, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Experience the Spiritual Exercises by taking a deep dive into the life of Simon, named Peter, the rock, by Jesus. Just as he has two names, so he has two distinct sides to his personality. He is gentle, but bold; foolish, yet wise, and human. Together we’ll pray about what it means to belong to a Church that is larger than the sum of its members.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Beloved Sinners, Broken & Blessed: Celebrating the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises through the Psalms
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 17 - 19, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ
Biblical scholar Fr. Mitch continues his insightful teaching with a deep dive into the psalms of glory, exploring their historical context and connection to the 4th Week of the Spiritual Exercises—the joy of Christ’s Resurrection.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Knights of Columbus at St. Catherine of Siena - West Dundee
Is our house built on rock or sand?
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
September 11 - 13, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Paul Macke, SJ
This men’s retreat will focus on the foundation of our life. Is our house built on Rock or Sand? Our world situation is often filled with chaos right now, and we need solid anchors to navigate these rough waters. This retreat will give some quiet space to reflect on what is most important for you and for our world.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Matt Carpenter
A Jesuit’s Guide to the Stars
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
October 16 - 18, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Br. Guy Consolmagno, SJ
Jesuit spirituality is centered on “finding God in all things.” What better represents “all things” than the universe itself? Indeed, Jesuits have figured prominently in the history of astronomy, engaging both the mind and the heart... the mathematical and scientific study of the phenomena, and also its history and philosophy, and its reflections in art, photography, and poetry.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Trusting God in Life’s Twists and Turns: The Conversions of St. Ignatius Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
December 4 - 6, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Michael J. Graham, SJ
Life rarely follows a straight path. Unexpected joys, sudden losses, new opportunities, and unforeseen challenges all shape our journey. In these moments of uncertainty, we are invited to pause, reflect, and seek where God is leading us. This retreat offers a sacred space to explore the ways in which life’s detours and disruptions are not obstacles, but invitations—callings to trust, to grow, and to deepen our relationship with God. Through guided reflections rooted in Ignatian spirituality, personal prayer, and quiet contemplation, we will consider how God is present in the unexpected, gently guiding us toward a future filled with grace. Come with an open heart, ready to listen to the stirrings of the Spirit. Together, in the silence and beauty of retreat, we will discern how life’s twists and turns are shaping us for something greater—leading us ever closer to God’s loving embrace.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Encountering Christ in the Spiritual Exercises
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 8 - 10, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Br. Larry Huck, SJ
If I desire to follow Jesus Christ in my life, I have to come to know him. On this retreat, we will follow in the footsteps of St. Ignatius of Loyola in seeking to be a companion of Jesus.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Four Shepherds
"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 15 - 17, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ
It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.
Groups Attending: Individuals
A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 22 - 24, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Experience the Spiritual Exercises by taking a deep dive into the life of Simon, named Peter, the rock, by Jesus. Just as he has two names, so he has two distinct sides to his personality. He is gentle, but bold; foolish, yet wise, and human. Together we’ll pray about what it means to belong to a Church that is larger than the sum of its members.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Roche/Zera
Anchored in Glory - A Retreat on Christian Hope
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
January 29 - 31, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Michael Pederson, SJ
Christian hope is not wishful thinking, but rather confidence rooted in God’s promise. Through Scripture, the Spiritual Exercises, and prayerful silence, this retreat invites you to rediscover and strengthen the hope we have through Jesus. The hope that strengthens us through suffering, failure, and uncertainty. Drawing on St. Paul’s vision of hope in Romans and the Church’s understanding of hope as a theological virtue, we will explore how God trains the heart to desire what truly lasts. Come encounter the God who calls you forward and anchors your life in eternal glory.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Behold, I Stand at the Door and Knock: A Journey Through Sacred Thresholds
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
February 26 - 28, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Damian Torres-Botello, SJ
This retreat invites you to walk through the sacred thresholds of Scripture: doors of encounter, freedom, suffering, and new life. Each “door” is a spiritual opening, a place where God meets us and draws us into deeper trust and love. Grounded in the Ignatian Examen, one of the key movements of the Spiritual Exercises, every session leads toward the door Christ still knocks on today: the human heart. Along the way, we cross Scripture’s most powerful entry points: the Threshold of Creation, the Ark, the Passover Doorposts, the Temple, the Manger, the Shepherd’s Gate, the Upper Room, the Tomb’s opening, and finally, the threshold into Christ’s own heart.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Praying with Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
March 19 - 21, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Flaherty, SJ
Although they lived in quite separate times and circumstances, Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola share a common and dramatic experience of conversion to Christ. The experience shaped Paul’s theology as expressed in his various letters to the Christian and largely Gentile communities. And Ignatius’ Spiritual Exercises, as well, are shaped by his experience of Christ calling him to be his companion. In this retreat, I will explore some connections between a selection of Paul’s letters and Ignatius’ Exercises to show how they mutually enrich one another and invite us, in Paul’s words, “to put on Christ.”
Groups Attending: Individuals
Trusting God in Life’s Twists and Turns: The Conversions of St. Ignatius Loyola
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 9 - 11, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Michael J. Graham, SJ
Life rarely follows a straight path. Unexpected joys, sudden losses, new opportunities, and unforeseen challenges all shape our journey. In these moments of uncertainty, we are invited to pause, reflect, and seek where God is leading us. This retreat offers a sacred space to explore the ways in which life’s detours and disruptions are not obstacles, but invitations—callings to trust, to grow, and to deepen our relationship with God. Through guided reflections rooted in Ignatian spirituality, personal prayer, and quiet contemplation, we will consider how God is present in the unexpected, gently guiding us toward a future filled with grace. Come with an open heart, ready to listen to the stirrings of the Spirit. Together, in the silence and beauty of retreat, we will discern how life’s twists and turns are shaping us for something greater—leading us ever closer to God’s loving embrace.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Refresh, Renew, Respond
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men
April 23 - 25, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Brad Held, SJ
Jesus calls all people, and each of us in particular, to join him in building his kingdom. Retreating gives each of us an opportunity to refresh our ears to what Jesus sounds like and to renew our hearts to respond to his call. We'll use elements of St. Ignatius' Spiritual Exercises to aid us in that refreshment and renewal.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Prayer in Real Life
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
May 1 - 3, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Vinita Hampton Wright
Prayer isn’t just for quiet moments—it’s meant to weave through the ordinary rhythms of our days. This retreat invites you to explore practical, meaningful ways to connect with God in the midst of real life. Through reflection, conversation, and quiet time, discover how prayer can be a steady companion—whether in joy, struggle, work, or rest.
Groups Attending: Individuals, Saint Ignatius College Prep Parents and Alumni
Graced Encounters with Christ
A Day of Reflection for Women
Friday, May 8, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Sharon Krone
Jesus promised, “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” On this sacred day of reflection, we gather to rest in the assurance of His constant presence. Through Scripture, we will listen for the gentle whisper of His voice. In prayerful silence, we will open our hearts to the Spirit moving within. As we remember moments of grace in our lives, we will recognize the footprints of Christ walking beside us. And in faith-sharing with fellow pilgrims, we will glimpse the face of Jesus in one another.
Come away for a while and be renewed by the quiet beauty of the day—a time to encounter the living Christ who is already here, waiting to meet you in the stillness.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
The Spiritual Heart of Women
An Ignatian, Silent Overnight Retreat for Women
June 19 - 20, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $280.00 per person
Retreat Leaders:
Erin Maiorca, Elizabeth Neubauer & Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ
Greet the summer season, tend your spirit and welcome God's love. On this overnight, interfaith retreat we will explore different ways to pray including:
- Meditation, with the loving-kindness prayer
- Embodied prayer, with gentle Tai Chi movements,
- Lectio Divina, an ancient Christian practice of Scripture reading
- Sacred writing, allowing your feelings to flow and be expressed
You will have time to breathe in the beauty of creation as we nurture our deepest selves. Mass will be celebrated on Saturday afternoon and the Sacrament of Reconciliation will be available.
Come as you are, to rest in nature’s beauty. Bring a sister, daughter, mother or friends and nurture your soul alongside the women you love.
Groups Attending: Individuals
"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
October 9 - 11, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ
It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Hope Lives in Our Real Life
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
November 6 - 8, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Becky Eldredge
“We have this anchor of hope firm and secure.” Hebrews 6:19. As we survey our lives and world, hope can feel far out of our reach. Our faith teaches us that God infuses hope in us. Come and journey with Becky Eldredge, Ignatian trained spiritual director, retreat facilitator, and award-winning author as she invites you to embrace the gift of hope and learn practical tools to anchor into the promise of hope in our real lives.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Preparing Our Pilgrim Hearts for Lent
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women
February 5 - 7, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Christine Eberle
Too often, Lent catches us by surprise; we find ourselves at an Ash Wednesday service trying to figure out what to give up (or take on) for the next six weeks. This year, why not ground your Lent in a weekend retreat that will help you enter the holy season ahead more grace-fully? Through presentation, reflection, conversation, and prayer, we will consider how to approach Lent with the heart of a pilgrim: radically open to the journey before us as we deepen our walk with God.
Groups Attending: Individuals
The Trauma-Informed Spiritual Exercises: Growing Your Ignatian Spiritual and Pastoral Caregiving Skills
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 20 - 22, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Rob McChesney, SJ
The American Psychological Association calls trauma “an emotional response to a terrible event.” Research indicates that about 70% of people worldwide have been exposed to at least one traumatic event in their lives: suffering injuries to body, mind, brain, and spirit. In the Christian tradition, these human components do not function separately but are understood holistically as the “soul.”
Most people are familiar with the term “posttraumatic stress disorder” (PTSD). However, the ancient Greek word for trauma means a wound—not a disorder—inflicted upon the body by an act of violence. God’s people are wounded, and those entrusted with the care of souls are called to respond.
This weekend offering is designed for the personal and professional development of Ignatian spiritual and pastoral caregivers—including those in parish, educational, or healthcare settings—who are seeking to grow their trauma-informed self-awareness and skills. Grounded in Fr. McChesney's book on mental health and Ignatian spirituality, it will: 1) situate Saint Ignatius in light of contemporary trauma theory; 2) examine the significance of "soul-healing"; in Christian and Ignatian tradition; and 3) identify and discuss particular Ignatian spiritual insights and practices adapted to noticing and caring for the wounded among us, many of whom are journeying through posttraumatic growth in the wake of “moral injury trauma” or “spiritual injury trauma.”
A hybrid workshop/retreat, it will include input and exercises from the facilitators, dialogue and faith sharing among participants, and time for both liturgical and personal prayer.
Groups Attending: Individuals
This retreat begins tomorrow, but there is still space available. To register, call the office at 847-381-1261.
Lenten Day of Prayer: Paying Attention
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Monday, March 30, 2026
9:00 am to 4:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Cameron Bellm
"Attention is the beginning of devotion." --Mary Oliver
"Attention, taken to its highest degree, is the same thing as prayer. It presupposes faith and love. Absolutely unmixed attention is prayer." --Simone Weil
Many artists, poets, and mystics believed that attention was central to the spiritual life, to our experience of God and the world around us. We'll spend this day of reflection drinking deeply from the well of their wisdom, with time to enter into the fullness of God's loving gaze upon us and to practice turning our own loving gaze upon others and upon the wonders of creation. We'll be nourished, together, by the intertwined mysteries of prayer and attention.
We will close the day with the stations of the cross through Mary's eyes, giving us an opportunity to turn our attention and compassion upon all who are suffering and to enter into the Triduum with sensitive and open hearts.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
March Personal Retreat Days
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
March 30 - April 2, 2026
Come to enjoy the quiet of Bellarmine this spring. Spiritual Direction is available upon request if scheduled far enough in advance. Otherwise, enjoy the time to pray, rest and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds.
Registration deadline: March 25
Single Night Cost: $175.00
Two Nights or more: $160.00 per night
Walking with Christ
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
April 2 - 4, 2026
Suggested Contribution: $380.00 per person
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Roc O'Connor, SJ
Enter into the sacred journey of Holy Week with prayer, reflection, and silence. As we walk alongside Jesus, from the Upper Room to the Cross and into the hope of the Resurrection, we’ll listen deeply to His call and open our hearts to His grace. Through Scripture, Ignatian contemplation, and quiet time with God, this retreat invites you to experience the depth of Christ’s love and the promise of new life.
Groups Attending: Individuals
To Proclaim A Year of Favor from the Lord: A Day of Healing Prayer
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Tuesday, April 21, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leaders:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ & A Team of Healers
Come to this day to pray for yourself and for your loved ones. Fr. Michael will introduce us to variety of ways of praying for healing - physically, emotionally, and spiritually. For as many of the retreatants as time allows, there will be the opportunity for brief individual prayer with members of a prayer team. The day includes a “Healing Mass” and a closing Healing Prayer Service with Eucharistic Adoration.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Veterans "Coming Home" Retreat
A Veteran's Coming Home Retreat for Adults
Sunday, May 17, 2026
8:00 am to 5:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
A Jesuit and a Team of Veterans
Where do you go to unpack the duffle bag of experiences that were part of your military experience? Here at Bellarmine all veterans and their adult family members are welcome for reflection on the gifts and burdens of have served. Whether you're recently discharged or back in civilian life for many years, this is a day of healing, hope, and sharing with others who understand your story. Open to all faith traditions.
Peace & Quiet Day
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
Friday, June 19, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
This quiet day is an opportunity to enjoy Bellarmine's sacred grounds without the interruptions of a regular day. While there are no talks or presentations for this day, an optional Mass is included along with breakfast and lunch.
June 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
June 22 - 30, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Monday, June 22, or Friday, June 26th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five days end either Friday, June 26th or Tuesday, June 30th.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.
July 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
July 17 - 25, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Friday, July 17, or Monday, July 20th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five Days then end on either Tuesday, July 21 or Friday, July 24.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.
Charismatic Retreat: A New Heart
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
September 18 - 20, 2026
Retreat Leaders:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ, Mark Kwaku Nimo, D. Min. & Fr. Keith Romke
Back by popular request, this team of dynamic presenters will lead us in soul stirring praise and worship music, inspiring teachings, and powerful witnesses. Come with a heart hungry to experience a fresh outpouring of the Holy Spirit. The retreat is open to seasoned charismatics and those new to the movement.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Becoming a Mighty Kindness: Surrendering to the Beauty of Our Unshakable Goodness
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
September 25 - 27, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Gregory Boyle, SJ
Drawing from the intentional community formed at Homeboy Industries, this session explores the principles that we are all unshakably good and that we belong to each other. Surrendering to this, nurtures into place, communities of cherished belonging.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Writing Retreat: Epiphanies’ of Beauty
An Ignatian, Semi-Slient Extended Weekend Retreat for Adults
October 1 - 4, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Carla Galdo
Saint John Paul II exhorted artists “passionately dedicated to the search for new ‘epiphanies’ of beauty” to offer their creative works “as gifts to the world.” As writers, artists, or thoughtful people who feel called to the crafting of language, how can we best receive God’s world, in all of its grit and glory, and offer it back as gift through our works? Poets, novelists, saints, and other writers have grappled with this question over the years; we will explore some of their reflections, while also taking intentional time for prayer, worship, meditation, and personal writing.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Journeying in Friendship with Jesus
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
October 23 - 25, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Nick Albin, SJ
Journey with Fr. Nick through a retreat exploration into the theme of friendship with Jesus. This weekend will provide an opportunity to reflect upon the joys and challenges within friendships while discerning how to root these experiences through the context of Christ’s life by examining his relationships with the apostles and the people whom he encountered in the gospels. This retreat will include applied personal reflections from Fr. Nick while drawing upon examples from scripture and the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola as prayerful invitations to deepen one’s friendship with Jesus.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Growing Closer to God through the Changes in Our Lives
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
February 19 - 21, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Al Gustafson
The reality of change is the only constant in our human experience. Our fall retreat will invite us to trust this is not something to fear but rather to embrace. Drawing from our Christian tradition and Buddhist spiritual practices, we will discover that change is the portal through which we step toward deepening our experience and trust in the love and mercy of God. Our time together will include teaching, guided meditations and small group sharing.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Beloved Sinners, Broken & Blessed: Celebrating the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises through the Psalms
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 5 - 7, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ
Biblical scholar Fr Mitch reprises his insightful teachings with a deep dive into the psalms exploring their historical context and connection to The Principle & Foundation and the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises.
Groups Attending: Individuals
From Passion and Death to New Life: Living the Paschal Mystery in Our Lives
An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
March 25 - 27, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Mark Carr, SJ
Each Holy Week the liturgies of the Church retrace the path of Jesus' passion, death, and resurrection. As disciples of Christ, we are called to follow that same path in our lives. Through scripture, Ignatian contemplation, the liturgies of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, and quiet time for reflection, this retreat invites you to experience the depth of Christ’s love and the promise of new life.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Ignatian Spirituality and Yoga
An Ignatian, Semi-Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults
April 2 - 4, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Bobby Karle, SJ
This retreat includes gentle movement, group prayer, silent reflection, small group sharing, and spiritual direction. We will explore the four Universal Apostolic Preferences of the Society of Jesus through the lens of both the Christian and Yoga traditions. Relax, and connect with God, nature, self, and others. No prior experience required.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Ignatian Spirituality in a Secular Age
An Ignatian, Silent Overnight Retreat for Adults
April 16 - 17, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Dr. Lauren Schwer
This retreat explores how Ignatian spirituality—rooted in discernment, interior freedom, and an understanding of one’s unique role in the work of justice and love—is not only necessary and relevant in today’s world, but also invitational to those who are religiously unaffiliated, spiritual but not religious, seeking, or otherwise not part of a particular spiritual home. Participants will engage in prayer/reflection and conversation as they integrate the gifts of the Ignatian tradition into their lives with depth while honoring their own spiritual identity.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Bellarmine does not have a specific weekend retreat for Married Couples during the current retreat season. However, we invite you to come on one of our co-ed retreats. These retreats are listed on our All Adults tab above.
Life is the Teacher: I am the Student
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
October 30 - November 1, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Roger Bruner
As we watch how our Higher Power manifests in creation, we witness that Life is the Teacher. As our lives unfold before us, sometimes we wonder “why is this happening to me?” A better question might be “what is this person, situation, or circumstance trying to show or teach me?” How do we learn to interpret the happenings in our day with the intention to “read our spiritual mail?” We need to see it and feel it, rather than push the lesson away, because the lesson holds the answer for change. This weekend will focus on embracing that shift in perception, to realize that it’s all a gift, if we’re willing to be students.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Making a Real Connection
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Women
November 13 - 15, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Roc O'Connor, SJ
The Twelve Steps provide a path for emerging from isolation and self-focus toward becoming real with self, others, and our Higher Power and, so, making worthwhile connections. Here’s one way of approaching the Steps.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Working with the Tools of the Program
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
November 20 - 22, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Rev. Carol Ann Munro
The twelve steps provide us tools not merely for getting sober, but for living our fullest lives. They provide a systematic way to build a rich and rewarding relationship with a Higher Power that can result in a life beyond our wildest imaginings. And they take us on an adventure from learning how to accept the things we cannot change to being grateful for all we are given.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Growing into Your Best Self
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
December 11 - 13, 2026
Retreat Leader:
Elizabeth Neubauer
Prior to recovery, we lead selfish, disconnected lives. By applying the spiritual principles to our attitudes and behaviors we will have the strength to change into a person we can be proud of. This weekend we will explore how our Higher Power walks with us on this journey of healing. Together, we will see how to repair relationships and recognize how perfectionism and shame have held us back from our desire to be trustworthy, honest and whole.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Practice Makes Progress
A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Men
March 12 - 14, 2027
Retreat Leader:
Fr. Tom Weston, SJ
Explore the wisdom of the 12 Steps as a path to peace and lasting joy. Step away from the noise, gather practical and spiritual tools, and grow in grace and gratitude—one day at a time.
Groups Attending: Individuals
Lenten Day of Prayer: Paying Attention
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Monday, March 30, 2026
9:00 am to 4:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Cameron Bellm
"Attention is the beginning of devotion." --Mary Oliver
"Attention, taken to its highest degree, is the same thing as prayer. It presupposes faith and love. Absolutely unmixed attention is prayer." --Simone Weil
Many artists, poets, and mystics believed that attention was central to the spiritual life, to our experience of God and the world around us. We'll spend this day of reflection drinking deeply from the well of their wisdom, with time to enter into the fullness of God's loving gaze upon us and to practice turning our own loving gaze upon others and upon the wonders of creation. We'll be nourished, together, by the intertwined mysteries of prayer and attention.
We will close the day with the stations of the cross through Mary's eyes, giving us an opportunity to turn our attention and compassion upon all who are suffering and to enter into the Triduum with sensitive and open hearts.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
To Proclaim A Year of Favor from the Lord: A Day of Healing Prayer
A Day of Reflection for Adults
Tuesday, April 21, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leaders:
Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ & A Team of Healers
Come to this day to pray for yourself and for your loved ones. Fr. Michael will introduce us to variety of ways of praying for healing - physically, emotionally, and spiritually. For as many of the retreatants as time allows, there will be the opportunity for brief individual prayer with members of a prayer team. The day includes a “Healing Mass” and a closing Healing Prayer Service with Eucharistic Adoration.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Graced Encounters with Christ
A Day of Reflection for Women
Friday, May 8, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
Sharon Krone
Jesus promised, “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” On this sacred day of reflection, we gather to rest in the assurance of His constant presence. Through Scripture, we will listen for the gentle whisper of His voice. In prayerful silence, we will open our hearts to the Spirit moving within. As we remember moments of grace in our lives, we will recognize the footprints of Christ walking beside us. And in faith-sharing with fellow pilgrims, we will glimpse the face of Jesus in one another.
Come away for a while and be renewed by the quiet beauty of the day—a time to encounter the living Christ who is already here, waiting to meet you in the stillness.
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Veterans "Coming Home" Retreat
A Veteran's Coming Home Retreat for Adults
Sunday, May 17, 2026
8:00 am to 5:00 pm
Retreat Leader:
A Jesuit and a Team of Veterans
Where do you go to unpack the duffle bag of experiences that were part of your military experience? Here at Bellarmine all veterans and their adult family members are welcome for reflection on the gifts and burdens of have served. Whether you're recently discharged or back in civilian life for many years, this is a day of healing, hope, and sharing with others who understand your story. Open to all faith traditions.
Twice each summer, Bellarmine offers five to eight days of stillness and prayer during a silent individually directed retreat. Paired with a spiritual director highly experienced in facilitating the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius Loyola, retreatants embark on a prayer journey to help them focus on God’s activity stirring in the depths of their hearts. Each person’s retreat follows a unique path with Christ.
The retreat includes daily celebration of the Eucharist, daily one-on-one meetings with a spiritual director, and personal time to rest, pray, and reflect in the sacred spaces and beautiful grounds of Bellarmine.
Additionally, throughout the year certain days are set aside for Personal Retreat days or "Mini-Directed" retreats. Come spend a day (with or without overnight) or a few days of peace and quiet.
March Personal Retreat Days
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
March 30 - April 2, 2026
Come to enjoy the quiet of Bellarmine this spring. Spiritual Direction is available upon request if scheduled far enough in advance. Otherwise, enjoy the time to pray, rest and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds.
Registration deadline: March 25
Single Night Cost: $175.00
Two Nights or more: $160.00 per night
Peace & Quiet Day
Personal Retreat Days for Adults
Friday, June 19, 2026
9:00 am to 3:00 pm
This quiet day is an opportunity to enjoy Bellarmine's sacred grounds without the interruptions of a regular day. While there are no talks or presentations for this day, an optional Mass is included along with breakfast and lunch.
June 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
June 22 - 30, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Monday, June 22, or Friday, June 26th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five days end either Friday, June 26th or Tuesday, June 30th.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.
July 2026 Individually Directed Retreats
Individually Directed Retreats for Adults
July 17 - 25, 2026
Spiritual Directors:
Bellarmine Jesuit Ministry Team and Additional Spiritual Directors
Come to the quiet of Bellarmine and take some time for yourself to get away from the distractions of life so you can read, write, catch up on sleep and pray. Spiritual Direction is available upon request with advance notice at time of registration. Otherwise, the time is yours to pray and enjoy the serenity of the house and grounds. You may register for either five or eight days. Five day retreats are to start either on Friday, July 17, or Monday, July 20th with retreatants arriving between 4 and 5:30 pm. Five Days then end on either Tuesday, July 21 or Friday, July 24.
Registration requires a $100 deposit.
For a 5 Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $690 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $790)
For an 8 Night Day Individually Directed Retreat (early bird pricing of $1,115 total including deposit ends on 3/11/26, full price if registering after 3/11/26 is $1,215)
Costs include all meals and spiritual direction. You can view a list of spiritual directors here.